Am I making a rod for my own back as her Dad claims? And are we not going to be able to take her anywhere?
I'm talking about things like avoidable noisy door closing, clattering of cutlery or crockery, tv being on loud (I can easily hear most things on 29 but her dad has it on 42 which is nearly unbearable for me).
Baby is 5 months and I do 100% of childcare (he has fed her about twice this year, changed her about twice and never put any money towards a single item for her ever), so he is thoroughly unaffected if she wakes at any point. During night feeds if her dad is up (due to being out late) then he will talk loudly and unnecessarily, to the point our daughter (who normally never opens her eyes during night feed) stopped feeding to glare at him.
I believe he does it on purpose as I've repeatedly asked him to quieten down please, but he always says the above statements.
Is he right? I just don't want to make her suffer unnecessarily, and it's me who will face the consequences of her being woken up.
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NutCase82 · 30/01/2018 21:56
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