DP's brother (23yo) has asked if he can stay with us for 2 months whilst he works in the area with the hopes to get a new job around here at the end of his temporary contract. We have a tiny house and he'd be staying on a sofa bed.
Now I like BIL but he lacks commitment and doesn't stick to jobs very well. He is also in a bit of debt from online gambling. I've agreed that he can stay but have laid some group rules...
- He is to pay us a set amount of money each week to cover utilities/food etc.
- He can only stay for 2 months, if he plans on staying in the area permanently he can move into a house share, which we will help him do.
- If he quits this job for any reason he is to go straight home to MIL's where he lives.
- His gf can't come over every weekend to stay. Once or twice is fine. We expect him to go to hers (1hr train ride) if he wants to see her (which he usually does on weekends).
- He is to get a bus to and from work. We won't be giving lifts as we both work and have other commitments.
Do they sound fair? DP is going to explain all this to him in a firm but nice way.