He is due back tomorrow, been away for a week for work. Contact has slowed down as the days went on.
He's busy seeing clients through the day then taking them out in the evening for drinks/meals so not much chance to speak, I get it.
But DS1 is ill and had been missing him loads. Last night he climbed out of his cot at 1am with his runny nose and teary eyes and started asking for daddy. DP knows this.
We had a 1 min conversation on the phone this morning which he cut off as he had to speak to someone, that's ok.
But I text him and asked if he could give us a call when he has time as DS is sad, unwell and keeps bringing me the phone asking to call daddy.
DS bedtime rolls around and no contact, he has read the messages as I could see on whatsapp they're open. I tried to video call him because DS was really upset and giving me the phone and it kept saying contact is on another call. He finally called 20mins after DSs bedtime, he was lucky I ran late putting him down because I was juggling him and baby, and DP just about managed to give up 5mins of his precious time before he had to go and get ready to go out for another meal/drink night, he seemed quite distracted too.
It turned out he was speaking to a friend from abroad when I tried calling earlier (after seeing texts from me) - I didn't say anything but it annoyed me a lot.
AIBU to be peeved he didn't prioritise DS just to tell him good night even though he knew he was missing him and decided to call someone else instead?
I am prepared to be told IBU but TBH I have just spent a week alone with a baby and ill toddler and my mental state is not intact.
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NomsQualityStreets · 23/01/2018 20:27
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