He works through an agency as a cover supervisor in schools. Ds1 will go up to the secondary school in September and told me recently that ex sometimes works there. I thought it wasn't ideal really, but didn't give it much thought. However, I am a teacher and since then a new member of staff in my department who used to work where ex now works has told me that he falls asleep in lessons. I felt ashamed when she told me (fuck knows why - I'm not married to him anymore) so I can't imagine how embarrassed the dc will be if he carries on like that when they are there. Apparently the kids think it hilarious and like him as they can do what they want, but I think our dc will get stick for this.
What can I do ? Obviously IWBU to tell him not to work there (he struggles for money and regular work) and, yes, he has a health condition that makes him tired (though doesn't stop him doing late night gigs, but I get that it's relatively easy to fall asleep when you're just sitting at a desk) but I feel he should do everything in his power to stop this from happening for the sake of his dc. What can I do ? I feel our dc have enough to contend with and don't need this.
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To think ex shouldn't take this job in a school the dc will attend?
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theduchessstill · 22/01/2018 21:51
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DixieNormas ·
23/01/2018 00:38
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