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In wondering when the hell everyone lost respect for relationships?!

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hellogoodbye1 · 21/01/2018 22:13

Happily married to dh. Have a young ds.

Yesterday no less than THREE men came on to me.

All of them are friends with dh too! All have wives/ long term partners.

What the fuck is wrong with people? I feel like people are giving less of a shit about this kind of thing these days.

When I had a go at one of them he told me I should have felt flattered not angry. Wtf? AngryEnvy

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ThisLittleKitty · 21/01/2018 22:14

3 people in relationships came on to you in one day? Sounds like some kind of weird bet tbh.

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 21/01/2018 22:18

I know... What the odds of losing THREE losing bets too?

Statistically significant!

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PiffleandWiffle · 21/01/2018 22:19

Were you clothed?

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ThisLittleKitty · 21/01/2018 22:20

Some kind of dare or something seems too odd to me it was all on one day lol.

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PurpleDaisies · 21/01/2018 22:20

What were you doing yesterday? That’s one interesting day...

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arethereanyleftatall · 21/01/2018 22:23

What do you mean exactly by 'come on to you'? 3 in one day is very unusual, so could they just have been being friendly?

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formerbabe · 21/01/2018 22:29

Really?!

Three of your dh's married/coupled friends came onto you in one day?

In what scenario? I can't think of many days when I've seen three of my oh's friends unless it's a party. Was it a social gathering? Was there a bowl filled with car keys?

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myfannyhurts · 21/01/2018 22:36

Congratulations, OP! I’ve been on MN for years under various names and this is my very first Biscuit.

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Armychef30 · 21/01/2018 22:37
Biscuit
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Only1scoop · 21/01/2018 22:38

Are you Samantha Brick??

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DancingOnRainbows · 21/01/2018 22:43

I don't know what is wrong with people. What IS wrong with me that this has literally NEVER happened to me?

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paxillin · 21/01/2018 22:44
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MiddleClassProblem · 21/01/2018 22:46

Are you sure they were coming on to you?

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BigBrownBoogyinBear · 21/01/2018 22:49

This is going to be one of those threads where the "moral" is that if you think your husband would never cheat you are naive and WRONG, they all go crazy at the slightest hint of an attractive woman.

Oh and also married women are all jealous of single women and try to keep their husbands close to them, but this just pushes them further away.

And married women let themselves go, so it's their own fault really.

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FloydOnThePull · 21/01/2018 22:51

Beat me to it Onlyonescoop Grin

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loveablether · 21/01/2018 22:55

Who's Samantha brick?

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FurCoatFurKnickers · 21/01/2018 23:00

What did your DH say when you told him?

Agree it was some kind of bet - grab a granny type of jape between childish blokes.

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FurCoatFurKnickers · 21/01/2018 23:03

@loveblether She's an ordinary looking woman who thought she was a goddess and women hated her for being too pretty.

Provided much hilarity amongst those who aren't terminally deluded.

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MiddleClassProblem · 21/01/2018 23:14

Well, more key to her provocative stance on her attractiveness is that she’s a journalist for The Daily Fail and The Scum amongst others.

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adayatthebeach · 21/01/2018 23:14

Ha yes maybe all three got together and said let’s see how she will react.

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MikeUniformMike · 21/01/2018 23:14

If she's beautiful, she hides it well.

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HoneyDragon · 21/01/2018 23:22


Erm......Pax? Little help here?
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yousignup · 21/01/2018 23:23

Do you have pampas grass on your front lawn?

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paxillin · 21/01/2018 23:24

Soz, @HoneyDragon, didn't realise you're in there. He didn't come on to you, did he?

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TheQueenOfWands · 21/01/2018 23:25

You sure they were coming onto you?

Years ago a woman threatened to beat me up for coming onto her bloke in a club.

I was just talking to him. You know, normally. Like people do.

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