My friends have all got young children, ranging from newborns to reception age in primary.
I love children, I really do. Unfortunately, I'm not in a position to have any (haven't got a partner.)
Part of me thinks this is just a natural consequence of our lives going in very different directions, but most of the time when I see my friends the children are there. This makes it really hard to talk about anything as there are just constant interruptions and "sorry, what were you saying" and it feels really silly if you've been talking about something important to have a toddler shout something in the middle of it and friend says "oh, sorry" and attends to him and so I end up saying "oh, never mind - what does Oliver need?"
The conversations also naturally revolve around the children, latest words, steps, funny sayings, new toys. I feign interest but it's getting harder to act as if I'm really excited too.
I just feel as if we're growing apart but it worries me, as obviously, going into 40s with few friends, no family of my own - is this how bitter old women are born?
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To think I am going to lose all my friends?
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springtimegarden · 19/01/2018 20:13
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