I've posted with my husband's refusal to have sex with me under a different name.
In 2017 - no sex at all and only a few short hugs.
2016 - sex three times.
2015 - twice.
I can't take it anymore.
He's a fabulous dad to our teen child.
He loves me - I know he does.
It's not enough.
I'm ashamed to admit to having a non sexual, emotional affair over the last year. This man makes me feel desirable. It won't go any further than that, but it has given me some comfort.
For the last year or so, my husband has chosen to sleep in another room. This started when he had a heavy cold and snored so much that he kept me awake.
Every night, he stays in his study and plays computer games. I watch tv in another room.
He adores our child and will do everything for him.
I'm depressed and frightened and frustrated.
I don't think I can honour the vows I made at our wedding.
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To ask - is my husband's refusal to have sex is abuse? Grounds for divorce?
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worrieddottcom · 18/01/2018 19:42
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18/01/2018 19:46
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