Xmas we had my family over for a few days ( they live in another country, got flights etc. ). Dates all agreed with DP beforehand. Curtailed because DP not keen on having people, even my family stay, more tolerant of own family. She was horrible to them when they were here, rude, ignoring - making sure they knew it was inconvenient - but we have enough room for everyone so that was not the issue. Just in a massive strop the whole time. Me, DC, DD and DB all got along fantastically and happy to be together. They help out, are tidy, etc. not a burden to have as guests. friends and neighbours over Xmas who saw them commented on how lucky we are to have them.
They left and she was like another person... sweet, cheerful.
So what do I do? no family had been here in 6 months because of this, I have gone there with DC. This can't go on. I feel like I'm being made not to see them and we are close ( given the geographic distance). Dreading suggesting the next time I even see them because I know it will be a massive strop - she doesn't want to go but doesn't want us to be away.
Suggestions? We have been together 10 years but this has been building over last3/4
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illustrious · 18/01/2018 00:01
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