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Help me with a response to this arsehole

(45 Posts)
NewYearNiki Sat 13-Jan-18 23:49:52

A gem from tinder.

DCITennison Sat 13-Jan-18 23:55:27

Assuming the answer is no then "no" would suffice, surely.

quitealotlost Sat 13-Jan-18 23:55:48

I don't get it? A cuckold is a guy who's woman is cheating on him, right?

So who would you be in this scenario?

Is he basically asking for a threesome? Or something else? <confused!>

ScreamingValenta Sat 13-Jan-18 23:56:13

"No. Bye! Have a nice life."

NewYearNiki Sat 13-Jan-18 23:57:17

So who would you be in this scenario?

Quite. I dont get it either.

ScreamingValenta Sat 13-Jan-18 23:59:17

I think he means he'd want you to shag other men while he watched; or for you to film/describe said shagging in great detail for him.

AnnieAnoniMouse Sun 14-Jan-18 00:00:48

Why not just block them?

PavlovianLunge Sun 14-Jan-18 00:01:44

‘No, I wouldn’t.’

OliviaBonas Sun 14-Jan-18 00:02:45

Just delete don't respond!

CoraPirbright Sun 14-Jan-18 00:03:10

How about ‘ODFOD’. Classic, to the point, works in so many scenarios!!

NewYearNiki Sun 14-Jan-18 00:03:15

After having so many arseholes on tinder you get tired of it and I wanted to say something witty.

Will just unmatch

gamerchick Sun 14-Jan-18 00:03:43

Well are you?

If you’re just looking for bog standard then tell him you thank him for his straightforwardness but it’s a no and leave it there.

HermionesRightHook Sun 14-Jan-18 00:08:11

I'm sure there's a lot of jokes in Shakespeare about cuckolding, blind him with literacy?

Though he might take them as a come on of course.

KC225 Sun 14-Jan-18 00:10:47

No. I am allergic to all poultry

trojanpony Sun 14-Jan-18 00:10:50

Just a “no thanks” would suffice

TemptressofWaikiki Sun 14-Jan-18 00:10:55

I'd just respond: "Sounds great! I'll dump my offspring at your crib and you can raise them. Give me a shout when the blighters turned 18"

ScreamingValenta Sun 14-Jan-18 00:12:03

YY to Temptress's response grin.

rememberthetime Sun 14-Jan-18 00:16:39

At least he is upfront about his preferences. He's been polite and hasn't been rude or offensive to you. Why would you want to shut him down?
He's not being an arsehole that I can see.

But I am sorry you've come across others.

FlyingElbows Sun 14-Jan-18 00:18:35

Why would you bother responding?

gingerclementine Sun 14-Jan-18 00:20:00

Why would that deserve a response of any kind? Isn't ignoring them the best way to stop them doing this to you and other people?

TheQueenOfWands Sun 14-Jan-18 00:24:19

Respond with, 'What's that, then?"

steff13 Sun 14-Jan-18 00:26:29

Does being interested in cuckholding make him an asshole? It's not my thing, but some people are into it. I don't think he's really done anything wrong. Just say no thanks.

Longdistance Sun 14-Jan-18 00:26:36

‘Go fuck yourself!’

vwlphb Sun 14-Jan-18 00:28:53

So he has a fetish that he's upfront about, I don't see why that means he's an arsehole or you have to be rude to him. Just say, "Not my thing, thanks."

Frankly I'd rather have someone with an obvious potential deal-breaker like that get to the point right away rather than bring it up on date three.

It's not like he sent you an unsolicited dick pic or anything.

Snotgobbler99 Sun 14-Jan-18 00:32:30

"Yes, please. On condition you insert this first..."

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