So, after I posted about being upset over not being able to afford the wedding I had originally envisaged myself and OH sat down and decided on an intimate ceremony and meal at a restaurant with a party afterwards, if we could afford that.
However every idea I've had my parents have shot down in one way or another.
- The original plan - too dear.
- Go abroad - selfish, how could I do that to my grandparents as they probably won't live to see any other grandchild's wedding.
- Only parents and siblings - see above.
- Intimate ceremony and meal only - not good enough, what will people do afterwards?
- Intimate ceremony and meal followed by a party - why not look elsewhere and see what places have good packages?
It's reached the point where no matter what is suggested I know someone will have something to say about it and now I feel close to tears at the thought of any wedding. Surely it's not supposed to be so upsetting and tiring already? Surely someone is supposed to be happy for you?
It seems like there is no point in a bloody wedding if it's going to cause so much stress and everyone else wants it there way without any regard to what we want?
I can't see any way of planning without someone going on and on.