Me and my partner have been together nearly 5 years, we have two children together aswell as my 3 step children (fathers are not involved in their lives). I'm calling them my step children for this post but in real life, i would never think of not seeing them as my own children.
I want to propose for a 5 year anniversary but had thought I need to offer to adopt her children at the same time and was planning on asking my partner and my step children these questions together.
Talking to my mostly male mates about theese plans I have got a negative reaction and I have been told I need to make proposing just about my partner and special for her.
AIBU to propose marriage and adoption at the same time? How would you feel if your DP proposed like this?
Im running out of time to finalise plans and I'm panicking I'm going to do it wrong.
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duckdarlington · 12/01/2018 17:03
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