I think I might be having my first PFB moment.
Back story: Christmas is always a huge negotiation in my family, my mum always does what ever my younger brother instructs asks for. E.g. will move Christmas from family home to his house in different part of the country on "my year" to be with my parents (alternate between my Parents & PIL's). Massive amounts of emotional blackmail on years with PIL's
This is 1st year with DD, so have tried to keep everyone happy by saying I'll drive & we'll visit everyone. I've just found out he's invited 4 extra people over to my DM's. So she's going to be hosting 8 people rather than 4, 2 of whom no-one apart from my DB has ever met before.
Apart from a bit of social anxiety on my part, physically there's not room for 10 people in my DM's house. I'm still bf'ing so that's going to be awkward, plus how are my parents going to spend any time with my DD if they've got 4 extra people to host? And she's only 5mo & finds big groups of people a bit overwhelming.
AIBU to be pissed off & how do I deal with this sensitively?!
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woundedbutwalking · 16/12/2017 22:04
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