Firstly I have changed name so I can be honest without full exposure if anyone guesses who I am irl
So 10 days before Xmas having stated what days we have free over Xmas to have the dreaded in laws over for months. DH has just now asked me when we can have them arrrrrrr.
So the situation is I am front line nhs staff in a highly stressful job and I am working nights over the Xmas period. As in a couple of night pre Xmas finishing Xmas eve then I’m working Boxing Day and nye night. No I can’t host the day I’m working a night nor the day after. ( well not if anyone in the house wants to survive my sarcasm when exhausted and stressed ).
In laws don’t get this and think they can invite themselves when they want.
I have stated the facts again to DH and clearly what days to offer mil sil bill to come and visit. I have not seen him text this information to SIL!!! WIBU to kill DH if he surcums to them pushing for a day I’m working???? He is being quiet so I know they are putting pressure on! They have also done this directly to DH rather than the WhatsApp one I’m in. Interesting and telling?
For background no I don’t like them and mil has hardly seen our DC all year we are not close. They have history for this. The other year having had to endure them pre night shift over Xmas I ended up in tears at work due to having had a horrible day of them being nasty and no sleep. I am in a job where I really need to be on form.
Sorry had to vent. Enjoy your wine tonight x
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Grumpants · 15/12/2017 20:02
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