DD 13 recently lost her phone. We are not rushing to replace it in part because we are still holding out some hope of it turning up. DH is a SAHD (DDs are 13 and 14 so fairly easy life, and he tends to describe himself as semi-retired rather than SAHD!)
Today was DD's last day at school before Christmas. She did not know whether her school was finishing at lunch time or normal time (first term at new school,so no past experience of what normally happens at the end of term and she had not thought to ask, and dont think we got an email). She hoped to go out with friends after school if it did finish early but had not made specific plans (as she is new she is still finding her way in her new friendships when everyone else has known each other for 2 years). She had money with her but no phone (see above) or keys (she does not normally carry keys unless DH says in advance that he is not going to be in). DD1 had plans after school. DH knew all of this (lack of keys and phone, and uncertainty about school finish time and plans).
I spoke to DH at 11.30 and he said he was about to go out (PILs are staying are they were planning an art gallery or similar). If DD2 had finished at lunchtime and come straight home, she would get home around 1, and they would definitely not be back by then.
I appreciate that there is fault on DD2's part (losing phone, being vague about plans). But was I wrong to tell DH it was not appropriate for him to go out and potentially leave her stranded for several hours with no means of contacting anyone if she did finish early and come straight home?
BTW in case relevant, he dropped her at school this morning and she did ask for keys when he droppped her off (but not while still at home). He could have given her his keys because PIL are staying and could have let him back in (although it would probably have involved waking them up).
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WhyOhWine · 15/12/2017 18:43
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