I work in the NHS. Been a bad year. Lots of cutbacks. Huge staff turnover and general low morale. A fellow manager went private and took some staff with him. Not a option for me with travel etc. Plus I glad to see the back of dome of the colleagues...... oh yes and I wasn't asked anyway! So on the my AIBU. Afew colleagues who I was fairly close with, seen then outside of work for drinks etc have recently left. Said they were going elsewere. It now transpires theyve gone to the managers new place. I feel incredibly hurt they they lied to my face and couldn't confide in me. I would have wised them well. I supposr they were told to keep it quiet but honestly if they want to leave they can leave. Our current boss couldn't care less if it is the case. I feel annoyed as I organised leaving present and cars etc. They talked about having leaving drinks in the new year but I doubt they will commit now. Seems like they are all in a little secret gang and it's all hush hush. AIBU TO cut ties...... let's face it I doubt I will see much if them now anyway. I just feel hurt. Like my friendship was nothing to them. I relly want to send a text asking why they lies? But am aware that makes me sound very over invested! Tell me how to catch a grip
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