I’ve got a fucking horrible knot of anxiety.
My nephew and his wife announced their pregnancy last night. So when we see them at Christmas there will be excited baby talks (their first baby) on what will be my dead baby’s due date.
I had my 12 scan it was just as beautiful as the one they have posted but unfortunately my baby’s heart stopped a few weeks later when I was 15 weeks.
Due date was Christmas and now I’m dreading it even more than ever.
My children 6 and 11 also knew about the baby and were also painfully gutted to hear the baby had died.
Now I need to know how to proceed.
Part of me wants DH to speak to MIL and maybe ask nephew to keep the baby talks on the DL while we are there (one afternoon) but that makes me feel like a pathetic peice if shit. On the other hand I also don’t want my kids Christmas to be tainted with sadness as well.
I could scarper the in laws. But I would have to spend some time with them as it would be rude and obvious but we would still have the baby talk.
I think I could suck it up and just feel sick and sad but what about the kids?
And on the other hand why shouldn’t they get excited and talk about their first baby?
Argh I don’t know what to do.
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I’m going to have to educate excited baby talks on my dead baby’s due date. WWYD
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JustVent · 15/12/2017 09:07
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