I have a 12 year old SS and for many years now we have had this little tradition.
I put loose change in a tub for him and we save it until Xmas, then Father's Day and then his dad's birthday.
3 times a year, a week or so before these occasions we count the money, get it changed at the bank and go shopping together so he can buy his dad a gift from money he has saved, he has always enjoyed doing this.
However we counted the money at the weekend and got it changed and went shopping... he had £32.80 (it's usually somewhere between £25-35) he found a gift for his dad for Christmas which cost £15 so I then asked him what we were doing with the rest of the money, finding another gift or putting it back in the pot. He replied, I think I will just keep it. I told him no and it was one of those two options. He wasn't happy so refused to get another gift so it's gone back in the pot.
We have a brilliant relationship but this has caused a problem between us and ever since he has been really grumpy and stubborn towards me.
AIBU?
I'm not sure if to mention it to my DP or not either
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No not let him keep the money
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LittleMe03 · 14/12/2017 17:58
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