Hi,
Posting for traffic, but I am currently waiting for treatment for severe pre natal depression so please don't be too harsh.
I'm 34 weeks pregnant. My dh has form for drinking heavily, but has cut down to a certain extent this year.
I'm worried I will go into early labour and he won't be able to drive me to hospital, as he often has a few glasses of wine of an evening. (3 nights a week?). I asked him to cut it down/stop but he said it's me panicking and he will be having his usual few drinks over xmas. He says he's spoken to other people and it's unlikely I will go early as I didn't last time. He says we will get me to the hospital no matter what if anything does happen.
My mum and dad live right beside us and said I need to stop being so hard on him, that he's trying very hard. They said there will always be someone to drive me if needed. They are usually quite reasonable so that makes me think I probably am not thinking straight.
I have very little tolerance for anything right now, and cannot remember how it felt to relax with a drink, I don't really understand why it's so important to him (prior to this I've always loved a drink or two myself). I just wish he would reassure me but he won't, he slept in the spare room last night and I havent heard from him this morning, he would usually have rang by now. I don't imagine I'm great to be around right now either.
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Can't decide as I can't think straight.
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sureitsgrand · 13/12/2017 09:01
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