Hi all,
I've been mulling this over for a while and I'm still not sure if AIBU or my upstairs neighbour is.
To give some context, I live in a tiny London flat in a busy area in a purpose built building above a commercial premises and next to a train station (I know, fml) with a DS3 and a DS2. It's certainly not how I planned to bring up my kids but I'm doing the best I can.
Recently my upstairs neighbour, a very muscly young man, came down and demanded to speak to my DH as he 'didn't want to talk to me (I.e. a woman)'. He feels that my DS2 is too stomp-y and causes vibrations to travel up the walls to his flat and disturb him from '7 am till 7 PM'. These vibrations prevent him working in the evening. I was taken aback, apologised and offered that he text us any time he's sitting down to work so I can be extra vigilant of the kids.
The thing is, I believe very strongly that having children is a lifestyle choice and other people should not be put out by my decision to have kids. The kids aren't allowed to run or jump in the flat and I enforce it as best I can, but the 2 yr old does need reminding every day. I think it mainly happens when he gets excited bout something in another room, like bath time or DH coming home, and runs to the other room. Otherwise, it's just him walking around.
I appreciate my neighbour has a right to enjoy his flat but I feel like I'm living on edge stopping every little noise. AIBU?
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AmiU · 11/12/2017 17:28
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Killerfiller ·
11/12/2017 18:15
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