Dd has a December birthday. As it's difficult to get stuff booked for Dec I asked her back in the summer if she wanted a party or similar. I didn't just ask once we discussed several times as she was unsure but eventually I said she had to make a decision one way or the other.
She said no, no party. Then last weekend she decides she wants one, her asking resulted in an argument because I felt she has blindsided me. Result is she is now having some friends to our home but boundaries have been discussed.
Then tonight she decided she wants to start prepping our home tonight even though we had already discussed and agreed we'd do it at the weekend.
It involves moving some furniture around. I have a pain condition and I also have severe anxiety which she knows I manage by being organised and knowing what I am doing day to day.
She is saying she is too busy to do it another time before the party and so it won't get done the way it needs to be done (my opinion not hers).
So it's 2nd time in a few days she's just dumped a huge job on me.
Aibu to think she needs to be more considerate of the fact it's my home too and of my anxiety and physical limitations?
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To think dd needs to be more considerate?
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Mumchanges · 07/12/2017 20:29
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