AIBU to wake my husband for sex at 4am?

[shiftyfades]

As the title. I'm really horny, he has to get up for work in 2 hours. I have the "luxury" of being off sick (due to surgery).

I'm not sure if he'll be delighted or annoyed.

[shushpenfold]

I’d be annoyed! He might think differently if it was 30 mins before wake up though....

[shiftyfades]

True, I'll hold off and if I'm still in this predicament in an hour I will wake him

[bandbsmummy]

My DH would definitely not be annoyed.

[shiftyfades]

I wish I had asked him in the past - makes note to self...

[laudanum]

seems like you need a battery powered friend for such occasions.

[TheMaddHugger]

get a BOB

[shiftyfades]

What's a BOB?

He wasn't annoyed

[TheMaddHugger]

BOB battery Operated Boyfriend aka a vibrator

Good to know

[MsHopey]

My husband always said if I woke up horny, I have every right as his wife to wake him up to satisfy me. The one time I did he groaned, said he was too tired, and went straight back to sleep. Sounds like a fantasy, but in reality with work in the morning, not so much.

[shiftyfades]

Thanks Hugger

[shiftyfades]

Gutted Hopey, some things sound great in theory don't they?

I wouldn't make a habit of it as his work would suffer (and mine once I'm back), but I'm glad I woke him now

[MsHopey]

Wahhayyy! Lucky you

[Ifailed]

The obvious answer is how would you feel if it was the other way round and you had to be off to work?

[MoNigheanDonn]

My dh would have been thrilled. Also loving the photo of Dean...lovely way to wake up on a dreich Thursday

[Emlou07]

Christ some of the things people post online!

I'd be pissed. I like sleep more than sex! 😂

[Fairylea]

I would be absolutely livid if anyone woke me up at 4am for sex. Sleep is precious!

[CactaiSurprise]

My now DH (boyfriend at the time) told me that he LOOOOVED being woken up to being played with/a bj (sorry for tmi). So one morning I woke up horny decided to give it a go and as soon as I got started he, in a sleepy haze, panicked and swatted me off like a fly. I fell off the bed and never tried that again.

[shiftyfades]

Ha ha ha Cactai, that's hilarious

[Llanali]

These things sort of depend upon your relationship, don’t they?

Some people on here would say it was rape if their husband started having sex (be that penetrative or “foreplay”) whilst they were asleep as they hadn’t then consented. And that’s fine, their prerogative.

Personally, my husband is fine to help himself before I fully wake up! I would also wake him up playing with him too.
If either of us said no we would stop of course, but I’m always happy to be woken up for that :)

[ShatnersWig]

I'd expect more than a quickie if I was woken up at 4am and due up at 6am. Based on your postings it lasted not much more than half an hour.

[Mammyloveswine]

Ha my dh loves it when I do this... ! Doesn't happen often but he's certainly never been annoyed!

[TheNaze73]

You shouldn’t even have to ask. Of course you should

[Branleuse]

mine probably wouldnt mind, but I would mind if he did it to me

[liquidrevolution]

I woke DH up for sex 4 years ago as I was awake and bored writing up my dissertation.

DD is now 3.5. We hadnt planned on having kids .

[SheGotBetteDavisEyes]

I would be absolutely livid if anyone woke me up at 4am for sex. Sleep is precious!

Yep, same here. 4 am? When you're in a lovely deep sleep? God, I'd hate that.

Glad your DH didn't though OP