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AIBU to wake my husband for sex at 4am?

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shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 04:23:53

As the title. I'm really horny, he has to get up for work in 2 hours. I have the "luxury" of being off sick (due to surgery).

I'm not sure if he'll be delighted or annoyed.

shushpenfold Thu 07-Dec-17 04:29:06

I’d be annoyed! He might think differently if it was 30 mins before wake up though....

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 04:30:20

True, I'll hold off and if I'm still in this predicament in an hour I will wake him grin

bandbsmummy Thu 07-Dec-17 04:34:06

My DH would definitely not be annoyed.

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 04:38:01

I wish I had asked him in the past - makes note to self...

laudanum Thu 07-Dec-17 04:39:49

seems like you need a battery powered friend for such occasions.

TheMaddHugger Thu 07-Dec-17 04:41:57

get a BOB

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 05:08:03

What's a BOB?

He wasn't annoyed wink

TheMaddHugger Thu 07-Dec-17 05:18:16

BOB battery Operated Boyfriend aka a vibrator grin

Good to know

MsHopey Thu 07-Dec-17 05:30:23

My husband always said if I woke up horny, I have every right as his wife to wake him up to satisfy me. The one time I did he groaned, said he was too tired, and went straight back to sleep. Sounds like a fantasy, but in reality with work in the morning, not so much.

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 05:33:52

Thanks Hugger wink

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 05:35:18

Gutted Hopey, some things sound great in theory don't they?

I wouldn't make a habit of it as his work would suffer (and mine once I'm back), but I'm glad I woke him now grin

MsHopey Thu 07-Dec-17 05:50:22

Wahhayyy! Lucky you grin

Ifailed Thu 07-Dec-17 06:01:36

The obvious answer is how would you feel if it was the other way round and you had to be off to work?

MoNigheanDonn Thu 07-Dec-17 06:42:18

My dh would have been thrilled. Also loving the photo of Dean...lovely way to wake up on a dreich Thursday

Emlou07 Thu 07-Dec-17 06:44:03

Christ some of the things people post online! hmm

I'd be pissed. I like sleep more than sex! 😂

Fairylea Thu 07-Dec-17 06:44:19

I would be absolutely livid if anyone woke me up at 4am for sex. Sleep is precious!

CactaiSurprise Thu 07-Dec-17 06:49:46

My now DH (boyfriend at the time) told me that he LOOOOVED being woken up to being played with/a bj (sorry for tmi). So one morning I woke up horny decided to give it a go and as soon as I got started he, in a sleepy haze, panicked and swatted me off like a fly. I fell off the bed and never tried that again.
blush blush blush

shiftyfades Thu 07-Dec-17 08:06:52

Ha ha ha Cactai, that's hilarious grin

Llanali Thu 07-Dec-17 08:36:11

These things sort of depend upon your relationship, don’t they?

Some people on here would say it was rape if their husband started having sex (be that penetrative or “foreplay”) whilst they were asleep as they hadn’t then consented. And that’s fine, their prerogative.

Personally, my husband is fine to help himself before I fully wake up! I would also wake him up playing with him too.
If either of us said no we would stop of course, but I’m always happy to be woken up for that smile

ShatnersWig Thu 07-Dec-17 08:39:07

I'd expect more than a quickie if I was woken up at 4am and due up at 6am. Based on your postings it lasted not much more than half an hour.

Mammyloveswine Thu 07-Dec-17 12:01:08

Ha my dh loves it when I do this... ! Doesn't happen often but he's certainly never been annoyed!

TheNaze73 Thu 07-Dec-17 12:07:09

You shouldn’t even have to ask. Of course you should

Branleuse Thu 07-Dec-17 12:23:43

mine probably wouldnt mind, but I would mind if he did it to me

liquidrevolution Thu 07-Dec-17 12:23:53

I woke DH up for sex 4 years ago as I was awake and bored writing up my dissertation.

DD is now 3.5. We hadnt planned on having kids blush.

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