to ask my ex

[JoshHommesWife]

I've been broken up with my ex for nearly 2 months.

I miss him and we text regularly. I've met up with him about 7 times since we split.

However, we had an argument over the weekend where he accused me of "ignoring him" (didn't reply to a text for a day!!!)

AIBU to text him today and ask him for a coffee?

[SparklyMagpie]

Why did you break up?

[GrimDamnFanjo]

Er yes. Unless there's something you've not told us, just go no contact. You've broken up. This isn't helping you to move on.

[molifly]

It sounds like he's your ex but you don't want him to be, you want to be back on.

If so - does he feel the same? In my experience friendships rarely come from Ex relationships. Most of the time you either need to be together or cut ties.

[Wolfiefan]

You don't text an ex or have coffee with them. You're not in a relationship.

[c3pu]

You need to define some appropriate boundaries.

[Eatalot]

Depends why did you break up? Do the issues of why you broke up still exist? If he did break up then he may be keeping you on a leash in which case no coffee clean break. If you broke up and he want s to get back together but you dont coffee and txting is you stringing him along. I dont think you can rush into being friend s if thats what you want. Platonic friends after breakup is hard and takes a long while.

If you both regret breakup or needed some space had it and realised you are meant to be sure have coffee.