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JoshHommesWife Wed 06-Dec-17 12:39:06

I've been broken up with my ex for nearly 2 months.

I miss him and we text regularly. I've met up with him about 7 times since we split.

However, we had an argument over the weekend where he accused me of "ignoring him" (didn't reply to a text for a day!!!)

AIBU to text him today and ask him for a coffee?

SparklyMagpie Wed 06-Dec-17 12:41:48

Why did you break up?

GrimDamnFanjo Wed 06-Dec-17 12:42:14

Er yes. Unless there's something you've not told us, just go no contact. You've broken up. This isn't helping you to move on.

molifly Wed 06-Dec-17 12:42:27

It sounds like he's your ex but you don't want him to be, you want to be back on.

If so - does he feel the same? In my experience friendships rarely come from Ex relationships. Most of the time you either need to be together or cut ties.

Wolfiefan Wed 06-Dec-17 12:43:28

You don't text an ex or have coffee with them. You're not in a relationship.

c3pu Wed 06-Dec-17 12:46:06

You need to define some appropriate boundaries.

Eatalot Wed 06-Dec-17 12:49:19

Depends why did you break up? Do the issues of why you broke up still exist? If he did break up then he may be keeping you on a leash in which case no coffee clean break. If you broke up and he want s to get back together but you dont coffee and txting is you stringing him along. I dont think you can rush into being friend s if thats what you want. Platonic friends after breakup is hard and takes a long while.

If you both regret breakup or needed some space had it and realised you are meant to be sure have coffee.

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