I don't think IABU but what do you think?
I live in the same town as my DM.
I have a brother and a half brother (HB) - same dad. They live fairly close to each other, about 150 miles away.
DB will be with us at Christmas. HB will be at home so I won't see him. I had planned to visit next weekend instead. HB has no room to put me and DC up so the plan was to stay with DB (who doesn't have much room) for one night.
When she found out I was going, DM invited herself too. DB doesn't have room to fit us all in without a squeeze and the point of going wasn't to see DB as such but to see HB. I had planned to stay in a hotel but DB said not to.
AIBU to tell DM she can't come as it's a visit to my HB not my DB? It would completely change the whole dynamic and DM will see DB plenty over Christmas.
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Christmas family politics. AIBU?
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ChristmasFamilyJoy · 06/12/2017 09:23
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