I have battled feeling this way in the past. It was a battle in the realest sense for me, I did win though and came out victorious.
Worried that I am having fleeting dark thoughts again. Not because of depression, I am not depressed. I love life. But I can't get a job, or I lose jobs I scrape into because my disabilities mean I do a poor job. I've lost my disability payments and lost my housing benefit that I access through PIP. I have no family I can go and stay with. I have a lovely partner I love so much in another country - I feel so bad because I'm a cause of worry with my financial insolvency.
It's like it feels logical and pragmatic to have these occassional thoughts in my circumstances because I don't see how it can get better. Where do I go if I lose my tenancy? How will I eat? How will I manage my medical equipment on the street? How can I put my partner through a shitstorm of worry?
My AIBU therefore is - am I just human, to have these unwanted thoughts?
I don't have the energy to have another severe mental health crisis. I need to be well. I need to fix myself if it's going down that road because I have nothing to hold me up at all now. Last time I was really ill, I at least had a secure home to live in.
Please tell me they are just normal thoughts?
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If you were disabled, could not get a job, had no family - would you ever think of suicide?
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WhereAreTheOptions · 04/12/2017 17:47
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