Please can I ask for your tips on how to get motivated? I'm really struggling at the moment.
I'm job-hunting, and although I'm having a few interviews after sending in cover letters/application forms, I'm not actually getting anywhere after having the interviews.
I just want to stay in bed all day, and not do anything. I don't actually do this, but that's really what I want to do most. Perhaps part of the reason why I'm feeling like this is because of the cold weather and lack of sun now that it's winter - I'm not really sure.
I'm doing Talking Therapies at the moment (face-to-face counselling), which has really helped me to feel better within myself and has given me useful ways of helping to deal with times when I feel very down. I also have a careers coach (linked with my Talking Therapies treatment), who is helping me with job-hunting.
I go through periods of feeling really, really down about everything, which I think is fairly normal, although I find it hard to deal with.
Since starting the Talking Therapies treatment though, I've learned more ways of dealing with this (e.g. drawing up a weekly schedule, including a mix of routine, necessary and fun/enjoyable things in the schedule, doing a balance of things that give me achievement and pleasure).
I'm still finding it very, very difficult to get motivated though, and go through periods when the worst goes through my mind and I just don't want to be here anymore.
I just feel like it's such a waste of life not to enjoy what I'm doing. I also just feel really frustrated at myself that I can't seem to find a job, especially because I have so much support.
Please help. Any tips would be really appreciated.
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PamplemousseRouge · 04/12/2017 13:29
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