Hello!
Daft thread really but I feel like I'm being a bit of a cow now and would like others perspective.
I co parent with a good friend, we were never a couple just decided to do this. He is a really good dad and has ds a lot, he's also good in that if I ask him to have ds extra time he will. So all good and no room for complain really
But this sets my teeth on edge every time.
He likes his holidays, anything from two weeks away to a long weekend? He's currently on number 9 this year.
Fine, I'm happy to have the extra time with ds but, every time he books a holiday he books first then messages me:
"Just to let you know that I have booked a holiday from 2nd to 10th of April so I won't be available to have Freddie then"
It's that one word really, available, it makes me want to scream because it makes him sound like a voluntary babysitter who's doing me a favour rather than a father who very much chose to be a father.
So go on, hit me with it, am I being a cow?
(Btw I never say anything to him, just seethe quietly!!)
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AIBU?
To let this word gives me the rage?
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everywhichwaybut · 03/12/2017 09:57
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