So my DH has been with the same company for years, but he’s been a freelancer.. but this year he’s permanent so he’s ‘invited’ to their Christmas party with a partner when he never has been before.
He mentioned to me the date (very loosely..).... I’ve just become the (thankless) chair of the PTA and that date was our fair so I said I thought I should probably miss it so I could help clean up after our Christmas fair.
The date of the fair changed a good 2 months ago... and he didn’t say anything. I mentioned his Christmas party and he said it was nothing.
I pressed a little bit a week or so ago and he said that he was taking another person in the office as his plus one because they can’t go otherwise, and it was ‘nothing’.
So tonight.. (my birthday weekend also just to give some perspective) he gets ready in suit and I ask he wants dropping at the station... he says no, work have arranged for a car to collect him.
Some hours later I see Facebook pictures emerging and his work have hired out a huge London tourist attraction for their party. Like.. it’s a really huge thing.
I’m super pissed off. And more than that... just upset. Like he didn’t want me there.
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MaryPoppinsPenguins · 02/12/2017 23:50
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