Will try not to drip feed but also be brief!. DS2 was badly bullied in reception year. After trying with the school we eventually moved him. Been at new school 5 years now. He is very happy, top 3 in every subject (except games), reports say he is popular and lovely kid in class.
A mum phoned me out of the blue. My son has been bullying hers culminating in DS2 punching her boy ( BulliedBoy) in the groin and what was I going to do about it? I tried not to be the parent who believes her child is an angel regardless (although it was unbelievable to me) and mentioned it to my son. His reaction was shock, tears and asking me why BB would say that. Why didn't BB like him? Etc.
So after a bad night I take in a very worried boy to school. Get his form tutor in a room to tell her what's going on.
She is also shocked as no signs in class but will bring both boys in and talk about it.
Turns out BB lied. 2 weeks earlier they had been playing and DS2 caught BB eye in an accident but the punching groin incident was a lie. As witnessed by another child who came forward.
Teacher mentioned not first time BB and his mother had had issues with classmates. And mum of witness child said it has happened a lot and that BB mum a CF!
Obviously the school have been great but I am so angry at BB mother. She demanded my son apologize properly for the eye accident but to be frank my son deserves an apology too for the lie and upset caused.
I have not done anything yet except listen to everything but WIBU to let BB mum know what has gone off as apparently she has not contacted the school at all so may not even know her son has lied. OR am I just stirring the barrel of shit and should just let my son get over it?
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Ragnarhairybretches · 02/12/2017 18:22
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