First off, I know I’ve left myself in a vulnerable position by giving up work to raise DCs without being married (DCs are only 12 months apart so my wages wouldn’t have even covered childcare) so please don’t tell me this, I kick myself daily about it.
I have to ask my partner for money for every penny I spend, tonight I brought up opening a joint account to save me asking for a tenner here and a tenner there and he point blank refused saying that I’m shit with money and everything is about money (I have explained to him how financially vunerable I am at the minute and it worries me) I am not shit with money at all, I gave him months of my bank statements to prove this but he wouldn’t even look at them.
AIBU in telling him to fuck right off, and I would rather claim benefits that beg his smug self for money?
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Partner won’t get a joint bank account
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CarlHickbread · 01/12/2017 21:50
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