Just back from a short break to New York. I brought my 7 mth old dd, who is being fed aptimil formula, so purchased the individual 7oz bottles to cut out having no proper sterilized water facility’s in the hotel we stayed in. On the out going flight I packed 6 bottles and 4 baby food pouches which were put through a scanning machine thingie in security to detect whatever bad things it is they are looking for, reassured it was perfectly safe for the baby food, no problems. On the way back we had a short stopover, flying from LaGuardia to Dulles to Dublin (home). I had 6 milks in carryon and went through security, which is understandably very tight, no complaints there. All bags were scanned and again baby food was flagged. It was explained to me, since the bottles of formula were 7oz and not smaller I had a choice to either have them confiscated or accept an invasive 4 minute pat down. Since the trip was expected to be at least 12 hours I had no choice but to accept the pat down as my baby would obviously be starving and needed to be fed without question. It was thoroughly explained to me exactly how long it would take and what would happen, my sensitive areas would be gone over with the backs of the female security officers hand, I accepted and the pat down began, I was totally fine with everything, slightly embarrassed as it was done in front of a lot of other travelers but wanted to get it over with as pushed for time. She checked hair , neck, arms, chest, back, breasts, stomach, backside, up and down the insides of my legs, both front and back, so four times, but each time touched my vagina. Now im not prudish etc and understand they need to be very comprehensive in their searches, but this made me so uncomfortable I felt like bursting out crying. My Dh was holding the baby and all our luggage and was looking at me concerned and I felt so embarrassed. Basically I am saying aibu in being angry and humiliated that in order to have formula food for a 7 mth old baby for a 12 hour travelling period I have to have my vagina searched 4 times and does this actually make any sense, security wise? Sorry this is actually quite long😳.
AIBU?
Having my vagina touched in security, aibu to feel pissed?
sadiesnakes · 30/11/2017 09:43
I went through something similar back in 2003, not long after I got married. DH and I were travelled to Vienna via Munich. The German security people (women like in your case) made me feel so uncomfortable when they manhandled me. (I'm an SA survivor though my memories of this were suppressed at the time, no doubt this played a big part in the way I actually fought with them.)
They didn't search DH at all. Maybe they were looking for a woman who fitted my description? It was a horrible experience, though.
You definitely have my sympathy, OP. 
There's always fucking one isn't there?
Op, that sounds awful, but I think to avoid you actually taking your pants off, they have to 'pat' you down, people have been known to keep things in their knickers.
I guess it's checking for detonating device, if milk actually turned out to be bomb liquid?! (aware how ignorant I am about bombs)
A reporter filmed herself when she was pulled aside for the same kind of search angela rye
It looks bloody awful to be honest. 
for you op.
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