Just trying to find out where others stand on this.
Last night I was out with 2 friends and we were talking about people taking offence. They both think that if offence isn't intended then the person who has taken offence is in the wrong eg if person A makes a stupid mistake and refers to it as 'having a blonde moment' then person B, who is blonde, is not allowed to be offended because person A did not mean it hurtfully. Other examples include making jokey comments that others might overhear and interpret as being racist/sexist/homophobic when the intended recipient is not offended and offence was not meant.
Apparently you can only take offence if it is directed at you, meant intentionally and/or relevant to you, not to others.
I disagree with them as I don't think you can dictate how people react and just because something doesn't offend them doesn't mean it won't offend others. However, these friends think people like me are "easily offended, liberal types who are collectively turning this country into a population of over-sensitive snowflakes".
I am now worried that I might be a pearl clutching snowflake. Who is BU?
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lirpaloof · 24/11/2017 11:03
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