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To feel that "pranks" are getting completely out of control

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LindaDeb · 23/11/2017 10:46

I'm not ranting about a couple of kids ringing doorbells, but I'm really seeing the dark-side of these social media 'pranks' that kids are so keen to emulate. I found out recently (through his friend's mother!) that my DS (19) had copied one such prank which, like I fear many do, involved breaking the law. DS and a couple of his friends had gone to a little corner shop and stolen some trivial items (sweets I believe), and one of them had filmed this 'prank' to upload onto their social media, but very fortunately, he was stupid enough to let his mother see it, and she had him delete it almost immediately.

When I approached my son about it he didn't seem to take it seriously at all, indeed when I asked about it he showed me some videos, here's an example so you can understand why I'm so worked up,


(seems to wear his trousers like my son too, great!)
So they went there and shouted "Boonk Gang" in blind emulation of this complete and utter loser. Are these really the role models for teens today? I just can't believe it. I have to EXPLAIN to my 19-year old son that no, going in and shoplifting is illegal, NOT a prank! And for the shopkeeper, a 6 ft 2 kid in a hoodie taking stuff doesn't become okay once they say "dude it's just a prank".

Employers see this stuff and my son KNOWS this. They should also know the law is the law. Looking up this fool they copied shows me he has been arrested multiple times. Again, brilliant role model!

I'm sorry, what a rant, but rant over. Can we just return to knock and run PLEASE.
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Fekko · 23/11/2017 10:50

Tell him that 'prank' doesn't really count in a court of law. Did you steal - yes or no?

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Swizzlesticks23 · 23/11/2017 10:54

That's not a prank it's theft

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WorraLiberty · 23/11/2017 10:55

Hmm I don't know really.

As much as I agree those pranks are stupid and dangerous, your son is an adult and chooses to do it regardless.

The world is full of things we shouldn't copy and this is one of them.

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Swizzlesticks23 · 23/11/2017 10:55

He needs to grow up this is bonkers how it can be portrayed as a prank.

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BucksFrizz · 23/11/2017 10:56

You must be very proud Hmm

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WorraLiberty · 23/11/2017 10:56

And to be perfectly honest, that guy in the video is going to get a baseball bat around the head on of these days, if he hasn't already.

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DearMrDilkington · 23/11/2017 10:58

Oh come on. Your son is 19, not 12. He knows its wrong, don't blame this on YouTube.

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PinkHeart5914 · 23/11/2017 11:00

It’s not a ‘prank’ your ds is a thief!

Your 19 year old ds and you can’t say well he only done it becuase he saw it on you tube as a prank, like your ds didn’t know taking items from a shop without paying is stealing ffs

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corythatwas · 23/11/2017 11:03

Nothing to do with YouTube: somebody who thinks this is a prank at 19 has a more fundamental problem. As pp said, he is not 12.

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elQuintoConyo · 23/11/2017 11:07

OP, did you mean to type 9? Or is he really 19yo?

I'd peg him up by his ears Grin

He is an adult. He chose to steal something for the lolz. How would you feel hearing that in court, your adult son telling Judgemental Judy "yeah, i like totally did it just for the lolz".

Is your son Patrick Star?

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AnchorDownDeepBreath · 23/11/2017 11:08

That’s not a prank. Social media can be blamed for a lot of things, but not encouraging people to steal and posting videos of it online.

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MissionItsPossible · 23/11/2017 11:15

If you have to explain to a nineteen year old that shoplifting is bad then the blame is on the nineteen year old, not YouTube.

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araiwa · 23/11/2017 11:15

How bizarre...

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fruitlovingmonkey · 23/11/2017 11:16

You can’t blame YouTube for your son being an idiot.
I hope he doesn’t play violent video games if he copies everything he sees on screen Confused

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HateSummer · 23/11/2017 11:20

What? So they walk in and just take things in plain sight? Confused. Do they give them back afterwards? Stupid

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ILostItInTheEarlyNineties · 23/11/2017 11:23

Isn't it the definition of stupid to film yourself shoplifting and then distribute the video? Grin What a wally.

Perhaps he has the Respect of the Boonk Gang now for taking penny sweets. #tru Gansta

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Serin · 23/11/2017 11:28

19? FFS
Does he not have a job or a college course to focus on?
He needs to grow up, if he was mine I would go mad at him.

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LagunaBubbles · 23/11/2017 11:28

Does your DS have a mind of his own?

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Sparklingbrook · 23/11/2017 11:31

I don't get it.

If he is doing that he deserves to get caught and arrested.

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LindaDeb · 23/11/2017 11:50

Yes, it is theft, absolutely I do agree with you all. I don't want to seem like one of these mothers blaming everyone and everything else other than my son, but if this "Boonk Gang" individual was not so popular (millions of social media fans) then there wouldn't be that influence, surely?

To answer some questions, AFAIK they have only done is particular "Boonk Gang" prank/theft once. He doesn't really have much else to focus on as he is absolutely lazy and got in some trouble at some previous positions. Am I proud of him? Sometimes, but not always, and obviously not in this instance. Mind of his own? Hardly, whatever trash is being drilled into him about what is cool or "thug" at any given time. Did they return the sweets? No, he claimed to me they would have but got "hungry" and ate them instead. I don't buy it for a second as apparently they ran for about 20 mins straight. Couldn't have got too far, mind you, with their trousers hobbling them, but that's gangster innit? Not much consolation for the poor shopkeeper anyway, who I don't think knew what was going on...

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 23/11/2017 12:14

"Your son is 19 not 12. Don't blame this on YouTube"
110% this

Also don't down play ringing door bells and running away. That can be very intimidating to someone of a nervous disposition.

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Hmmalittlefishy · 23/11/2017 12:18

You tube isn't the one that should have been parenting him for 19 years.
My 5 year old knows that you don't take things from shops without paying how does your 19 year old not??
Is he aware that if caught he will be convicted like an adult (which he is) and the excuse that he saw it on you tube as a prank will not excuse anything

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DearMrDilkington · 23/11/2017 13:34

YouTube is really the last of your worries.

I'd be mortified if my child acted like this at 19, I'd be really embarrassed by him.

Don't try blaming his behaviour on the internet, it's not hard to see his like this because his mother constantly blamed someone else for his shitty attitude.

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corythatwas · 23/11/2017 19:22

"He doesn't really have much else to focus on as he is absolutely lazy and got in some trouble at some previous positions."

he is an adult: why doesn't he have to either study or work, like the rest of us?

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Bananalanacake · 23/11/2017 19:31

How does he pay for his social life if he doesn't have a job. Sorry if he does have one and you mean lazy in other ways

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