I am on ESA.
Obviously the school knows this because of free school meals and information collected.
I'm on limited money of course but I don't splash out anywhere, don't have a social life, don't drink or smoke. I don't have sky or an iPhone8. I don't have a car.
So I have enough to put away for park vouchers each month ensuring the kids have a good Christmas. They also get presents from extended family.
They all have good shoes and coats and are always presentable ( I feel this is relevant because it shows I have budgeted for them to have good quality things even though I receive ESA)
All the kids in the school get a token gift. Last year my kids came out with a bin bag each. With 2 presents. I didn't figure it out till I got home and they had opened the gifts and mentioned a charity drive for toys.
So they were given toys donated by people for disadvantaged children.
But I felt bit embarrassed but more so sad that these toys could have gone to kids that actually needed them.
AIBU to tell the school my kids are grateful but we really don't need presents this year?
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For not wanting donated presents?
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ElephatYeah · 22/11/2017 20:49
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