Hi everyone.
Please be easy on me, i'm new to posting. I need some advice please as i feel like i'm going mad. So my partner and i have been together about 18 years on and off. He has a little boy (doesn't live with us) and we have a little girl together. From the very early days of our relationship i have made it very clear that i have always wanted children (more than 1) over the last year i have been trying my best to talk about having a 2nd child together. Everytime i have tried to approach the subject he's been negitive, he's got angry about me talking about it and said that i should be happy with what i have and looked for reasons why we can't. Well tonight i have again put my feelings to him about my desire to have another child. He's basically told me that he doesn't want anymore children and that if i forced it and ending up getting pregnant he would probaby leave me. It's completely changed the way i look at him and made me question whether i even want to be with him and even have another child with him. I know alot is said in anger because he struggles to express himself. But i'm left thinking my desire for another child won't go away and it is something i will always want, but how can i stay knowing the way he feels. I've even spoke about leaving after christmas. He thinks i'm being selfish because i'm not getting what i want. But how can i stay when he doesn't want the same things as me and the way he's treated me and the fact he's tried to make me feel i'm in the wrong for wanting another. I feel emotionally drained by the whole situation and it's starting to take it's toll on me. Thanks for listening
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Missy1983 · 21/11/2017 23:24
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