I've asked him before and offered he can stay at my house. I've left food for him. Then he walks them but then takes the food off to his house and leaves the dogs over night from 6pm ish untilthe next morning around 9. One of our dogs is 13 and starting to get a bit of urinary incontinence which makes this all the more unacceptable. When I ask him to take them to his house he just says yeah I might but then doesn't.
Ive been paying a dog walker but its so expensive. Just feeling hard done to. Stuck in an area with no job opportunities for me other than crap minimum wage part time unskilled soul destroying work whilst he swans around the country suiting himself and building his career. And from my wage of less than 100 quid a week I now have to pay a dog walker while that useless bastard is 3 miles away sitting on his arse
Dogs aren't children and if he doesn't care about them then he's allowed to wash his hands of them. If he was asking for access when it suited him it'd be different, but it sounds like he wants nothing to do with them, in which case they're not his dogs, they're yours.
thesmallthings he doesn't want them and can't look after them as work involves some over night stays They're not children but just like children, he can choose not to be involved. His choice and his loss. Im just pissed off that he doesnt care about them. I find it hard to understand how people can just choose to cut themselves off from something they once cared for and loved. Makes me question who he is.
I get that.. If he wanted them he should Have took them.
Personally I'd tell them I'm rehoming them so if he wants them he needs to say now. But iv never wanted a dog (I habe a phobia of dogs and young children together) and my ex husband brought one home after id just moved country with a new born and a 3 year old so I may be projecting.
But if you want to keep them inthink you need to think if them as yours not the ex's at all