Aibu? I live in a major city in the UK and she lives about 40 minutes train ride away in a slightly smaller city. Her long distance dp lives in the same city as me. I've been here now about 4 years.
She goes to visit DP in the city I live in at least 2 weekends a month and spends a lot of time there. Aibu to be offended she has never come to visit me in all the time I've lived here. We get on very well when we see each other but we rarely do as she doesn't initiate any effort. I've suggested meeting up with her and I am always met with "yeah we totally need to go out for shopping/drinks/food" but then she never messages me when she's in thr city. I don't want to pester her but kind of think because I live here then she should be the one to inform me whenever she's about of she truely wants to meet up.
Aibu to be a bit hurt to see photos of her around the town centre about 2 miles from where I live constantly going on Facebook and am thinking about hiding her posts because it's so frequent.
I live maybe 20 mins from my cousins. We only see each other at family occasions. When we do we get in brilliantly and have a really good time. We occasionally bump into each other shopping and have a matter but that's as far as it goes. None of us mind and none of us seem to want to take the relatinship further. Just because your related doesn't mean you're going to be close friends.