I don’t think I am being unreasonable and it is certainly a first world problem but I am sick of receiving crappy gifts!
Had a little bday party for 2 year old DS and SIL always gives the most thoughtless gifts (almost passive aggressive). This year she gave a jumper (summer here) for an 8 year old, with a promotional slogan on it (must have got it from a trip she did 2 years ago).
And I’m annoyed! Why is she giving DS things that I would have to store for 6 years.
Another example, first Xmas with DS (he was 6 weeks) she gave him a school hat.
I just can’t figure it out. Does she not care? I would be so embarrassed to be giving such thoughtless gifts.
We have been giving age appropriate gifts to her DC who are all grown up and I feel like now she just can’t be assed putting in any effort into our family.
I would like to emphasise that I do not want any gifts and would rather she didn’t give us anything at all (have raised this on a number of occasions but she pretends not to hear DH or me).
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I would rather not receive any gifts then useless stuff!
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PonyPals · 20/11/2017 02:07
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