X is an abusive twat.
Nevertheless I always facilitate dc getting him birthday/Xmas gifts etc.
I had big birthday 2 months ago he hadn't even acknowledged. He didn't help dc get me card or present. He didn't wish me happy birthday. Dc are 10 & 6.
This year they sorted my present and card themselves with a little help from me.
Dc haven't mentioned his birthday at all. Pretty sure they have forgotten. I nearly did - it just popped up on phone. I'm inclined to mirror his behaviour to me 2 months ago and just crack on with our day.
I will mention it to them so they can call and make a card. But I really don't want to give them money for a gift or take them shopping.
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RebeccaBunch · 19/11/2017 07:30
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