DS (16) left school in June and has done NOTHING since - he's basically been sat on his arse for almost 6 months, going to bed at 4am, getting up mid afternoon and going out with his mates until gone midnight.
He refused to go to college, half arsed attempt to get an apprentiship but failed and then eventually landed a job in McDonald's ... however he pissed about with that for weeks afterwards making excuses about why he couldn't start until he eventually gets a proper start date two weeks ago and goes and breaks his hand punching a wall over a disagreement about his girlfriend. Therefore on his first day, he had to tell the manager he couldn't work due to broken hand. I don't even know if he still has the job as he won't discuss it.
Lately he hasn't even been coming home, he goes out and stays out, often for a couple of days at a time.
I've just come back off holiday and he's left the house in a shit hole and has blatantly used it as a hotel for his mates.
I'm at the end of my patience with him. He's disrespectful and not nice to be around. Causes so much tension in the house and we don't even know where he is half the time or whether he's coming back or not. Last night DH waited up until 1.30am for him to come home (not his dad, his dad is a useless sack of shit) only for DS1 to pass the message on that he'd just text him to say he wasn't coming back.
AIBU to tell him he needs to find somewhere else to live if he can't live by normal family rules and expectations?
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To give 16 year old ultimatum- shape up or leave?
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DamnMyFrizzyHair · 18/11/2017 06:54
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