Ill try and keep it brief, DD is 8 and a half months old.
She has to eat/drink
breakfast at 7 (pooridge and a bottle of cows milk)
At bottl of foemula at 10
Lunch between 11.30 and 12
A bottle of formula at 2
Tea at 4.30
Bottle of formula before bed at 6.30
Nursery have been hinting for about two weeks that she doesn't need her 10am bottle, i have just sort of ignored the honts because tbh i dont thinm its their business, sometimes she drinks it and sometimes she doesnt but its up to me if i want to waste milk surely?
Anyway she is in nursery 3 days a week (M W F) on monday one bottle came home untouched, i thoight maybe i was going mad and gave her too many to take in, wednesday the same thing happened so i said something along the lines of "oh right i would prefer she still has it please even she doesnt drink it" they said "oh she has fruit and things with the other children now" i said "i'd still prefer her to have the 10 oclock bottle so i know shes drinking enough" and just got fobbed off with "oh but she is"
Fast forward to today ive had an awful few nughts with her having an ear infection, coulsnt possibly take today off and had no body to help me so had to send her in, we had been at GP's over her ear so she didnt go in until 10ish.
I specifically said when i dropped her off she hasnt had a very good night, (we had a nightmare at the GP's and i had to go and take her ear swab to the hospital myself ) so she hasnt eaten or drank since about 7.
She was asleep when i dropped her off but i said " i know dinner is at 11.30 but because she hasnt been very well and not eaten or drank since 7 can she please have that bottle when she wakes up" was told "yes absolutely no problem"
I rang nursery just now to ask how she is as i feel bad sending her in and they said "shes fine she didnt get up till 11ish though so we didnt give her bottle just made her wait till lunch"
Im fuming!! I specifically said she was to have it, ive had this conversation several times about her having that bottle but i know im really not assertive and suffer really bad anxiety and getting my point across can be really hard for me.
I dont think its nurseries place to tell me what i feed my baby! Im her mum and i pay them surely they should do as i say? Even if i wanted her to have a bottle on the hour every hour - that should be my decision not theres!
So lovely mumsnetters, AIBU? and if im not how do i make the nursery see my POV without coming across as a bitch or one of "those mums"
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Its another nursery one.....
64 replies
Myusername101 · 17/11/2017 13:51
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.