Guy keeps commenting on my fb activity and I’m wondering whether it means anything at all?! I know this sounds very childish, he lives far away and I am very good friends with his sibling - I know him a bit but not that well. He is also younger (early 20s to my mid 20s).
I have a slight crush and wondering whether I am projecting? Eg if I put attending on gigs, he’ll comment; he writes jokey comments underneath comments I leave for his sibling; he’ll put emojis underneath some of my inane Facebook activity... He does this on his friends’ activity too but I’m not really his friend! It’s a recent thing and hes been doing it a lot the past few weeks. Gah I’m reading too much into it aren’t I
Ah i can’t message - far too shy and too much at stake if it gets weird - my friendship with his sibling! Ha. I wonder if he is just being friendly but can’t work it out! He doesn’t seem to like pics, just comment?!
That’s a good idea - I’ve just been liking them, tbh he hasn’t given me much to go on. Eg I clicked attending on a certain concert and he commented with a “shock” emoji saying it was “big news if true” (that the artist was touring) - that’s not exactly flirty is it
Yeah this is what I’m wondering! When we last saw each other i idly wondered if he saw me in that way (he was being quite flirty) but since then it’s just been random Facebook things - the frequency of it has made me wonder if he means anything by it or if it is just banter - tbh I’m thinking the latter
Sounds like someone has a little crush! I'd definitely message him, he might be interested but if he's not then you haven't really lost anything because you're not that friendly anyway. I had my husband on facebook for years before any messaging happened, we would like each other's photos and status'. We spoke a few times but it was just friendly chit-chat. Then one day I messaged him, genuinely asking if he was ok. We haven't stopped talking since. It's definitely the best decision I ever made, and I was terrified to make it.
Update: he literally did it again right after I posted this thread - commenting on something I had “liked” on Facebook. His friend who I barely know also did the same, both using a catchphrase of mine in a jokey way (not mocking!!) - seemed friendly. Argh! He doesn’t seem to really like my pictures or anything though so I’m wondering whether to take any heed at all...