Trying to arrange DS 6th birthday party. It's at an organised indoor adventure type place ( not soft play). He's not inviting everyone in the class and we r trying to stick to numbers. Invited about 8 kids and their siblings. We invited ages ago (literally 6 weeks in advance) because we need to know numbers and work out teams and get party bags, and the siblings younger than a certain age will have to have something else organised as not old ejough, so I need to sort that with the venue etc...
Anyway, most people got back to us straight away. One person did not respond to my personalised email (first time I've ever spoken to her as a new friend of DS, so I wrote a nice hello email introducing myself, being friendly etc and asking if any siblings also want to come etc..) I saw the Mum in the playground a week or so after my email and asked if she got my email. She said she had but said the party wasn't for a few weeks (she almost sounded cross I'd invited so early). I then sent formal invitations on party invite paper about a week later. Didn't really need to as all but the one had replied! But DS likes to hand out invites. Still no reply from the Mum of new friend. Fast forward to today - party next week. I've emailed again and still no reply.
Am I being unreasonable to think this is very rude???
I think I'm being nice inviting all siblings and making a special effort to include and book something for them. Considering I've never really properly met this mum, I would have thought a 'thank you' would have been nice? Or at least a 'im sorry we may not be able to let you know til the day before because ....'
Ggggrrrrrr .... my friends think I'm over reacting! I probably am! Prepared to hear I'm being unreasonable! But really? Have people got no manners anymore????
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catboygeckoandowlett · 13/11/2017 20:51
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