Did you post yesterday about this? I think you absolutely have to try to work with the school and their pasterol system to get the best possible experience for your dd. Things have got off to a poor start but it’s very early still so there must be hope to turn things around?
I don’t blame you for feeling upset but take some time to set up some meetings and if possible get some advice on getting school onside. I feel for you, nothing worse than seeing your child miserable.