Hello, first post so please be kind :) I'll keep it short but sweet
Friends birthday party is being held in a major city so very expensive to organise accommodation.
All of our friends have been invited including partners who are also part of he friendship group.
The only single members of the group without DPs is me and one male partner (his gf can't attend due to money issues)
A hotel room on my own costs almost double what everyone is paying.
I don't feel comfortable sharing with the other male as his GF is quite paranoid about him sharing with another woman (understandable)
There is 1 couple in the whole group married and living together (my friend of years). I have therefore asked her if I can get a hotel room with her for the 1 night and suggested her Dp shares with the other single male (they are close mates).
The friend and her DP have got back to me and said they would rather not as they hardly see each other and spend time together and want to spend the night together .
AIBU by;
- Being hurt by this as they are the only couple living together and can't bare to spend 1 night apart so I can attend
- Feeling a bit scorned they didn't offer to help me find an alternative. Just dismissed it.
- Feeling like they were the best call as they live together unlike the other friends who are all doing long distance.