My H works away sometimes and a few months back he had a ONS whilst working away. Trying to put this behind us and trying to trust him again.
A couple of weeks back I had a bad, insecure day and snooped through his phone to find a few messages from a very pretty woman he works with. They were just friendly messages which mentioned how she was on his next work trip away for 4 days.
I had a look at her FB page and noticed how he 'liked' everyone of her selfies, but coincidentally didn't like any of her with her DH. H is now on a trip with her and a few others and just seen a pic of them all together with their arms around each other and he is stood next to her, of all the ones to stand next to.
I'm sorry to tell you that A man that has a ONS when away with work is unlikely to have done it just the once. You clearly don't trust him. Probably with good reason. I would personally keep snooping till I conformed my fears or had enough information to trust him.
I wouldn't like that one bit. People can argue til the cows come home that, in this case, he hasn't done anything wrong - just liked a few photos - but I personally think it's a lack of respect unless she's a good friend or he is just generally trigger happy with the like button (towards men and women). Probably nothing has happened but I wouldn't be surprised if he fancied her and he should be making you feel secure after his ONS, not liking women's pics for all to see!
Bloody hell. Get rid of him op. You can’t spend your life like this. He sounds like a pig. Messaging women on fb after a ONS? Absolute sleaze. He doesn’t have to cheat on you again for you to end it you know. You can just be done, because you’re done.
Put a comment under a pic he's liked saying oh you've only liked species how strange should I be worrued as you are away together for four days?. Game players like things to be secret don't accept secrets not even flirting and you stand a chance of changing the way he views you.
Sorry, but it sounds like he only confessed because he had to (re: STD tests). He doesn’t sound very trustworthy. I imagine there are more ONS that he’s not told you about, but he had the decency (!) to wear condoms the other times.
OP, is this a relationship you’d want for your daughter/niece or friend? Does he build you up, respect and support you? Life is too short and you won’t get any time back. Think long and hard about where you see your future x
Put a comment under a pic he's liked saying oh you've only liked species how strange should I be worrued as you are away together for four days?. Game players like things to be secret don't accept secrets not even flirting and you stand a chance of changing the way he views you
Why would you even suggest stirring up trouble in his collegues marraige? What ridiculous world do you orbit?