I feel this will be fairly long so bare with me! My son's school holds three "parent consultations" in a year, they are roughly 15 minutes and resemble speed dating in that unlike a traditional parents evening not much ground is covered.
I arrived to my parents consultation and the teacher began to tell me my child was not doing very well and severely behind in school. Examples given were his letter formations were struggling and his punctuation was "all over the place" (he is in year 2 for reference. His homework is handed in every week and always followed by well done, I can honestly say I'm clueless has to what level a 6 year old should be working at as I do not have friends with children and the school have never expressed concern with me. The teacher proceeded to pull out 5/6 other books and show me what an expected child's work looks like, this was then followed by him pointing at my sons work chuckling and making a remark of "this is ineligible". He then told me with consistent hard work my child can finish the academic year below average. I asked if I should get a tutor and was told that this was unnecessary as the school provided him all the help he needs. When asked about future plans there was nothing he could offer me but to tell me that an educational psychologist happened to be in that day and could he have permission to observe my child, I agreed.
I have been fuming all week that the school didn't deem it appropriate to contact me in regards to my sons progress prior to this. I am also shocked that they allocated me the same slot system when clearly there is a lot of intervention needed. I am confused as to why there is no plan in place to help my child. I also feel as if the teacher thinks my child is not going to get any better or improve.
My child isn't badly behaved and doesn't get told off often, he does however lack concentration in class (when I approached my son he said this was due to not understanding the task). Homework time has been getting increasingly difficult at home as he often gets frustrated at the tasks and starts crying.
What would you do in this situation? Would I be unreasonable to move his schools? Am I being sensitive?
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Eloise1205 · 11/11/2017 12:05
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