My partner has never got on with his sister and had a big argument with her as they kept buying everything for my dd (anything she wanted) and also gave sweets and fizzy pop then lied saying they hadn’t. My daughter then had a mouth full of caries but still carried on regardless. Basically partner asked them to stop or they won’t be seeing grandchild. Long story short I stepped in and said I wouldn’t stop contact and they could see children without having to deal with partner. SIL has decided she doesn’t want to talk to me no more (I refuse to let her talk to me like shit basically) again gave mil the choice of seeing grandchildren but she doesn’t want to upset her daughter so doesn’t want to see grandchildren but if I’m ever stuck will have the eldest! Now I’m thinking I now don’t want someone like her having my children if she can’t be mature and stand up to her childish daughter. How can any grandparent not want to see their grandchildren? Although I’m now quite pleased with their choice as their behaviour was having a really bad effect on my dd
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