I can't decide. We're very close and go out a lot together because we have similar tastes in music and films. We're both single at the moment (I had a nasty break up, so have been a bit put off dating, and he's struggled to find anybody he'd like to go out with) so it works well!
He's going to a friend's wedding in a couple of months and it invites a plus one. He asked if I'd like to go, saying it's a big wedding and he won't know that many people because it's his parents' friends' daughter, and there's a ceilidh which we both love and dance together well (Scottish university - lots of practice!).
But he's not out to this set of friends or his family. He's not 'obviously' gay (I was surprised when he told me) and he's sure they don't know.
We don't really talk about it, but I know he doesn't really like the fact that he's gay and finds it quite hard. I'm a bit worried that he's taking me to this to fend off the "have you found a nice girlfriend yet" questions, because people will assume we're a couple.
I don't think he can stay closeted all his life (he was reasonably out at university - he didn't announce it, but it wasn't a secret), so I just worry if I say yes to this it will make it more complicated for him later.
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KnittingNancy2017 · 09/11/2017 13:26
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